PERPETUAL INTERCOURSE
Where the partners are in a happy, loving, communicating and understanding relationship, intercourse, m the widest sense of the term, is a continuous activity. After all, intercourse is more than just the penis being placed in the vagina. Loving and sexual talk, affectionate behaviour and erotic contacts such as kissing, breast fondling and brief genital manipulation indulged in frequently throughout a couple’s daily life build up sexual tension in both. Looking and showing, especially in the case of the woman wearing underclothes which her partner finds erotic, all help to add to it. In these, and a hundred other ways more particular and personal to themselves, the couple build up one another’s desires to a point where genital expression becomes urgent.
Well adjusted couples do not even have to ask – they know when they are ready. Then they can read each other’s mood and adjust foreplay as required. For example, the man can tell if the woman is in an ‘I want to be forced’ mood and so after a chasing game he will take her with irresistible passion. Alternatively, she can tell if he wants to be seduced and can then put on her best ‘mistress’ behaviour followed by intercourse, perhaps with her on top. On other occasions they both know they would like a prolonged encounter with plenty of foreplay, romance, gentleness and tenderness. This sort of relationship has an element of ‘natural morality’ in it since no sensible person with such a partner would want to bother with anyone else, they would simply take too long to train or might even be untrainable.
All this contrasts sharply with those men who, for example, when their partner hears them clean their teeth before coming to bed knows she is for it. When he squeezes and sucks her breasts hard, which she may dislike but she has never said and he has never asked, it confirms she is to do her duty — and this with a man who, perhaps, scarcely ‘pays any attention to her except when he wants her genitally. Although perhaps somewhat exaggerated, this scenario, or a variation of it, is so commonplace as to make one wonder why affairs and divorce are not even more common. Equivalent bad behaviour in women includes, for example, asking the man if he has finished yet whilst the act is still in progress, and so on. Such men and women are copulators and often fear the intimacy and self-exposure which true intercourse involves.
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